Conscious Parenting - Nurturing Your Child’s Growth with Free Will

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Hi and welcome to day four of the Conscious Parenting Challenge.

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Yesterday we had a meditation session where we looked at us, we grounded,

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we brought in God's sons to be connected with our higher selves.

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And then we also did this for our children.

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We gave them their own grounding cord and their own higher self

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connection with the goal sign.

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And then we just rained out the resistance that we were feeling, the hesitation that

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we were feeling so what we, in effect, did yesterday was we learned to separate

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ourselves from our child's purposes.

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So we gave them their free will to be themselves and we gave us the

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permission to just be a parent.

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To be there, to watch them and support them.

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Effectively, we let them be and then we said, okay, I can just be as well.

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Now that brings us to a question about ourselves.

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Sometimes as parents we can then feel oh, so what's my role?

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What the hell am I doing here?

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Or what if my child is doing something wrong?

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So today, this is what we'll do.

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And if you haven't been able to look at some of the previous meditations and you

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just hopped in here, that's totally okay.

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So go ahead, close your eyes, put your feet flat on the

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floor and connect with Gaia.

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So Gaia is our Mother Earth.

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Gaia gives us life on planet Earth.

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And when we connect with her, we really go in and connect in

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with the center of the Earth.

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Not the top levels not where all the chaos of the planet might still be.

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We are going right in, into the calm and the quiet.

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This is where Gaia holds a lot of love for us.

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Unconditional love.

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Just say hello to Gaia, say hello to Mother Earth, and go Hey,

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I love you wrapping your hands around me, can we hug again?

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Can we have a nice embrace?

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Gaia's hands will automatically come up, she will automatically start

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connecting with you, you'll notice her connecting with your feet.

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She is around.

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Your first chakra, she is even around your second chakra.

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First chakra is where you would normally sit down, like your bottom and so on.

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Second chakra is around your belly button.

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So this is where we all tend to hold a lot of Emotions and feelings and

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just that whole feeling of safety, connectedness with the earth.

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So that's where she's really giving you a tight hug.

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And then she's got that embrace right around you, around your whole

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body and around your aura layers.

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So this is where she's taking away any stress, any anxiety,

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any overwhelm, any confusion, any noise that you have in your space.

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And then up above you is your own gold sun.

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Your own gold sun brings you your highest vibration.

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It brings you Your purest gold vibration, your highest growth vibration.

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So your truest, purest form as a parent, it brings that to you.

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Brings you your purest joy, your purest power, your purest

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freedom, your purest affinity.

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It brings all of that and it's really bringing that into your space.

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Now some of you have started noticing some little shifts over the past few

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days, for others it might take a little bit longer and that's absolutely okay.

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As you work with these meditations, you are peeling away layers and

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layers of energy that are not just built in this lifetime, even

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lifetime before, so it's okay.

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Relax.

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All of this happens.

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Don't be harsh on yourself.

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You're not doing anything wrong.

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The magic is coming.

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More and more calmness.

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More and more peace.

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More and more freedom.

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More and more love is coming to you.

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So just sit in this nice blissful sanctuary.

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Imagine that embrace with the earth, imagine the gold sun really

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filling you and feel that love.

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You do such a hard work as a parent, being there, providing, doing all

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the things, managing your work, your home, everything around it.

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This is your chance to receive allow yourself to be nourished

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and to be taken care of.

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And then do this for your child.

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Give them their grounding cord.

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Just ask the earth to give them a grounding cord.

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Then connect your child with their gold sun as well, so that they

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can have their own joy, their own freedom, their own happiness.

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Their own connection with the higher self and just watch that.

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And as you do this, and we did this a lot yesterday where we just cleared up the

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hesitation, the resistance in that space.

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And this time what I want you to do is as you're becoming more aware of how you

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both are different people, you both have different purpose, just see how the earth.

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How Gaia is the same being, she's nourishing you, she's

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nourishing your child.

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How the sun's there for you, and how the sun's there for your child.

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Just notice them with their higher self, just notice them evolving,

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or benefiting from the system that already works for them.

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They're grounding God.

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Their gold sun already works for them, amazing, right?

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So you can just sit and look and go wow, okay, I don't have

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so much pressure on me anymore.

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Wow, my child's already being supported.

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And sometimes notice when your answers, when what you want for

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your child, when that's a little bit different to what your child wants.

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Maybe pick up something that comes in your head.

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Imagine that situation where you don't agree with what your child wants.

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Just imagine that energy in their space while you're looking at them,

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and just ground that for them.

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So what you're doing there is you are clearing the energy where they might

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be influenced by something that is not in the highest alignment, you're

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clearing that noise away for them.

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And then just let them have that in its purest form.

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Give them that gold sun.

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Give them their gold sun of knowingness, give them a gold

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sun of good decision making.

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And just let them be, just watch them in that space.

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And you can be in your space grounding and running your gold sun.

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Your child can be in their space grounding and with their gold sun.

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And whatever it is that they want to do, you can just let

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them see that for what it is.

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So let's say if the situation that they desire is different, when you

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are grounding that situation, then your child can just start seeing

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that situation for what it is.

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You don't have to make a decision for them.

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And you know what, sometimes they might still want to try it

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anyway, haven't you done mistakes?

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But just let them see it.

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When you ground them, when you give them their gold sun, then you are

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connecting them to the higher self.

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When you connect a situation, a person with a grounding call and a gold sun,

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then you are letting the true colors of that situation or of that person appear.

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Then your child can make that decision for themselves.

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For now, you have a very handy tool to deal with things when you're not actually

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in agreement with what your child wants.

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But you're taking a very good step as a parent, trying to be on the

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side as your child just steps up and grows up, starts experiencing, starts

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making the decisions for themselves.

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And wherever you're feeling that hesitation, actually

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you can just ground it.

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You can just ask Gaia to help you.

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You can just ask the gold suns to show your child the right path.

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You're doing the right thing.

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You're a very good parent.

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Congratulations on coming this far.

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We finished phase one of these meditations.

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This one was just around connecting and understanding your

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children, so we finished that.

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Now, tomorrow, We will start on this journey around

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exploring our own childhood.

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How were we?

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What are the positive and the negative patterns that we had

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and we'll deal with those.

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See you then.

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Lots of love and heartiest congratulations for coming this far.

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You're doing a great job as a parent.

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See you tomorrow.